# grow together

CEFR B2 · Phrasal verb

Source: https://englishreference.com/word/grow-together
Updated: 2026-04-24

## Definition

to develop a closer relationship with someone over time as you both change or mature.

For teachers: to develop a stronger emotional or social bond through shared experiences and maturation; often used to describe the evolution of long-term relationships.

## Examples

- We grew together during our years at university.
- While many couples drift apart over the years, they managed to grow together by supporting each other's goals.
- The two communities, once divided by historical grievances, began to grow together as economic interests aligned and cultural exchanges became more frequent.

## Pitfalls

- Not "They grew together their children." but "They grew together while raising their children." — this phrasal verb is intransitive and cannot take a direct object; you cannot 'grow together' someone else.

## Usage notes

- usually used as an intransitive verb with a plural subject (we, they, the couple).
- Teaching tip: contrast this with 'grow apart', which is its direct opposite and much more common in discussions about failing relationships.

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