# unbecoming

/ˌənbiˈkəmɪŋ/ (US) · /ʌnbɪkˈʌmɪŋ/ (UK) · CEFR C1 · Adjective

Source: https://englishreference.com/word/unbecoming
Updated: 2026-10-18

## Definition

not right or suitable for someone in your position. You use it for behaviour that looks rude or cheap, or for clothes that do not look good on you.

For teachers: Not appropriate or fitting for a particular person, role, or situation, especially in conduct or appearance. Often describes behaviour that falls below expected dignity or clothing that does not flatter the wearer.

## Examples

- That rude comment is unbecoming for a team leader.
- The manager warned that shouting at customers is unbecoming of staff in a hotel.
- The senator's petulant outburst during the hearing struck observers as unbecoming of an office that demands restraint and impartial judgment.

## Synonyms

unseemly, improper, inappropriate, unsuitable, unflattering, undignified

## Antonyms

proper, appropriate, suitable, flattering

## Usage notes

- Often predicative after a linking verb, typically followed by 'of' or 'for' ('unbecoming of a leader').

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