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be mother

idiom
Meaning

To pour out tea for others.


Origin

disputed origin

Pouring tea is traditionally the mother's role in a family setting.

Examples
SIMPLE

I will be mother and pour the tea for everyone.

CONTEXTUAL

As the teapot arrived at the table, she smiled and asked if she should be mother.

COMPLEX

With a graceful gesture, she took the teapot and offered to be mother, ensuring every guest had a freshly poured cup.

Anchors to
Related idioms8entries
  1. 01

    and his mother

    Serves as an intensifier for an inclusive noun or phrase such as everyone, anyone, each someone or all someones.

  2. 02

    like mother, like daughter

    A daughter takes after her mother.

  3. 03

    mother hen

    An outspoken and overprotective woman or person dealing with others' affairs; especially, an assertive matriarch.

  4. 04

    Mother Hubbard

    Empty.

  5. 05

    mother lode

    Any source of valuable or useful material.

  6. 06

    mother of all

    Used before a plural noun to form a compound noun having the sense of: the greatest or largest of (its kind); the most epic example of (its kind).

  7. 07

    patience of Mother Teresa

    A great deal of patience.

  8. 08

    refrigerator mother

    An emotionally frigid mother, who does not exhibit normal care or love for her child or children.

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