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Idiom

been there, done that, bought the T-shirt

Meaning

Expresses the speaker's complete familiarity with a situation, with overtones of cynicism or exhaustion.

Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

Examples

“Don't tell me about heartbreak; I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.”

“When my friend started complaining about his difficult boss, I just sighed and said, I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.”

“If you are thinking about moving to a tiny apartment to save money, I have been there, done that, bought the T-shirt and moved back out.”

“She listened to the traveler's stories about lost luggage and missed flights with a look that said she had been there, done that, and bought the T-shirt.”

“Having endured every imaginable failure in the industry, he dismissed the young entrepreneur's advice with a weary, I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.”

Examples

simple

“Don't tell me about heartbreak; I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.”

contextual

“When my friend started complaining about his difficult boss, I just sighed and said, I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.”

“If you are thinking about moving to a tiny apartment to save money, I have been there, done that, bought the T-shirt and moved back out.”

“She listened to the traveler's stories about lost luggage and missed flights with a look that said she had been there, done that, and bought the T-shirt.”

complex

“Having endured every imaginable failure in the industry, he dismissed the young entrepreneur's advice with a weary, I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.”

Origin

The phrase originates from the late 20th-century practice of purchasing mass-produced apparel at a tourist destination to verify one’s presence there. It implies that the experience in question was a standard itinerary item, now concluded and evidenced by the acquisition of a souvenir.

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