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burn bridges

idiom
Meaning

Destroy relationships


Origin

disputed origin

From the military practice of burning bridges behind an advancing army to make retreat impossible — echoing ancient generals who burned their boats after landing.

Examples
SIMPLE

You should never burn bridges when you leave a job.

CONTEXTUAL

Even though he was angry with his boss, he tried not to burn bridges because he might need a reference later.

COMPLEX

The young professional realized that by acting unprofessionally during the dispute, she had burned bridges with the very people who could have helped her career grow.

Last updated June 7, 2026