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choose violence

idiom
Meaning

To disrespect or insult someone in a particularly audacious and unexpected manner.


Origin

first recorded 21st c.

According to Know Your Meme, first used in the idiomatic sense in a tweet posted June 21, 2019 by @mtheadnothought: "azealia banks wakes up every morning and chooses violence tbh the dedication is outstanding", itself inspired by line of dialogue in the 2016 Game of Thrones episode "No One" (see I choose violence).

Examples
SIMPLE

He chose violence when he insulted his boss during the meeting.

CONTEXTUAL

When she told her brother that his favorite movie was boring, she really chose violence.

COMPLEX

By publicly mocking the professor's life work in front of his peers, the student clearly chose violence.

Anchors to
Related idioms3entries
  1. 01

    choose one's fighter

    To select something as one's preferred choice from a set of related things, people etc.

  2. 02

    choose up

    To form (sides or teams), usually for a game, by having two individual players choose their teammates.

  3. 03

    I choose violence

    Used to express that one is firmly committed to making one's own choice(s) regardless of disapproval from others.

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