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F in the chat

idiom
Meaning

condolences, regret, or sympathy.


Origin

first recorded 21st c.

Originally a call for streamers on the online platform Twitch to type “F” in chat windows as a way to express sympathy when an unfortunate event occurs. This refers to the prompt “Press F to Pay Respects” in the PC version of the video game Call of Duty: Advanced Warfare (2014) which directs the player during a funeral cut scene to press the F key to touch the coffin of a soldier who was killed in battle saving the player’s life. The prompt became a meme, where people would be asked to “press F to pay respects” in non-gaming contexts to suggest that credit, recognition, or sympathy should be given.

Examples
SIMPLE

I failed my driving test, so F in the chat.

CONTEXTUAL

My phone screen just shattered into a thousand pieces, so F in the chat.

COMPLEX

When the team lost the championship in the final seconds, the fans posted an F in the chat to express their collective disappointment.

Anchors to
Related idioms3entries
  1. 01

    chat up

    To talk to (someone) in a friendly, open, or casual manner, sometimes also in a charming or affected manner, usually to curry favor, and sometimes flirtatiously with the intention of establishing a romantic or sexual encounter or relationship with that person.

  2. 02

    flat chat

    At maximum capability, intensity, or speed.

  3. 03

    L in the chat

    A loss, failure, or unfortunate event.

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