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French leave

idiom
Meaning

A departure taken quietly and unnoticed, without asking for permission or informing anyone.


Origin

disputed origin

From French (adjective) + leave (noun), apparently from a French custom, already recorded in the 18th century, of leaving from receptions or other events without formally announcing one’s departure to the host or hostess. Compare Spanish irse a la francesa and Portuguese sair à francesa (“go in the French manner”) but also the otherwise ubiquitous attribution of this behaviour to the English as with French filer à l’anglaise (“leave in the English manner”), Italian filarsela all'inglese, Polish wyjść po angielsku, etc.

Examples
SIMPLE

He took French leave when the party became too boring.

CONTEXTUAL

The employee took French leave during the meeting because he had an urgent personal matter to attend to.

COMPLEX

Disenchanted by the tedious nature of the gala, the diplomat took French leave, slipping out through the side door before the speeches began.

Anchors to
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  2. 02

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  3. 03

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    To give one an unpleasant feeling or memory.

  4. 04

    leave at the door

    To dispense with something for now; to forget about it situationally, or omit or discard it in a given place or instance.

  5. 05

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    To abandon.

  6. 06

    leave for dust

    To leave or abandon someone alone without helping or caring for them.

  7. 07

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    To stop living with one's parents.

  8. 08

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    Used to remind players not to dwell on minor mistakes, issues or conflicts that happened during the course of play.

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