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get one's wires crossed

idiom
Meaning

To get confused or mixed up about another person's intentions; to misunderstand one another.


Origin

disputed origin

From the early days of telephony, when touching wires could reroute conversations.

Examples
SIMPLE

We got our wires crossed about the meeting time.

CONTEXTUAL

I thought she was bringing the food, but she thought I was — we got our wires crossed.

COMPLEX

The two diplomats had got their wires crossed during negotiations, each believing the other had agreed to terms that had never in fact been discussed.

Anchors to
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    To follow one’s own inclinations and opinions.

  2. 02

    ace up one's sleeve

    A surprise advantage of which others are not aware.

  3. 03

    act one's age

    To behave in a manner appropriate to one's age.

  4. 04

    act one's age, not one's shoe size

    Synonym of act one's age (“to behave in a mature manner; to avoid being childish”).

  5. 05

    afraid of one's own shadow

    Exceptionally timid.

  6. 06

    air one's dirty laundry in public

    To reveal one's sordid secrets to the public.

  7. 07

    air one's dirty linen in public

    Synonym of air one's dirty laundry in public.

  8. 08

    albatross around one's neck

    A characteristic, possession, associate, or previous deed that hinders one's ability to succeed.

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