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a Judas kiss

idiom
Meaning

An act of betrayal disguised as friendship or affection.


Origin

The phrase comes from the arrest of Jesus in Matthew 26:48–49, echoed in Luke 22:47–48. Judas Iscariot has arranged a signal with the soldiers — the man I kiss is the one — and then greets Jesus with a kiss to mark him out for capture, turning a customary gesture of greeting and respect into the instrument of betrayal.

What makes the image so durable is the perversion of intimacy: the very sign of affection is used to hand a friend over to his enemies.

In English a Judas kiss is any act of treachery wrapped in a show of warmth or loyalty — the smile, the embrace, the reassurance offered by someone who is at that moment selling you out.

Examples
SIMPLE

His friendly handshake turned out to be a Judas kiss.

CONTEXTUAL

The glowing public endorsement was a Judas kiss; behind the scenes he was already briefing against her.

COMPLEX

The partner's warm reassurances in the boardroom were a Judas kiss, delivered with perfect sincerity even as the paperwork that would force the founder out sat signed and waiting in his desk drawer.

The Passionconnected storiesSee all Biblical origin →

The betrayal, trial and crucifixion.

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