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kill one's darlings

idiom
Meaning

To destroy things or characters, particularly in art, of which one is fond, often reluctantly in order to improve one's artistic output.


Origin

A piece of advice to prospective authors that they must kill their “darlings”, i.e. suppress overuse of their favorite expressions, tropes, characters, etc. Often attributed to William Faulkner (1897–1962), but already expressed earlier by Arthur Quiller-Couch (murder one's darlings); more recently popularized by Stephen King.

Examples
SIMPLE

To improve your story, you must kill your darlings.

CONTEXTUAL

The editor advised the writer to kill her darlings if she wanted the novel to move faster.

COMPLEX

Despite his deep attachment to the poetic descriptions, the author realized he had to kill his darlings to ensure the narrative remained focused and impactful.

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  3. 03

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  4. 04

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  5. 05

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  6. 06

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  7. 07

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  8. 08

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