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live over the brush

idiom
Meaning

To cohabit without being married.


Origin

disputed origin

Possibly ultimately derived from broomstick wedding, with broomstick meaning ersatz or sham. Often said to be derived from early British or Romani wedding practices, in which a couple could become married outside the Church by leaping a broom or brush, but no evidence exists for such a ceremony.

Examples
SIMPLE

They live over the brush in a small apartment.

CONTEXTUAL

Although they have been together for ten years, they prefer to live over the brush rather than get married.

COMPLEX

Despite the traditional expectations of their families, the couple chose to live over the brush, prioritizing their personal commitment over a formal wedding ceremony.

Anchors to
Related idioms8entries
  1. 01

    broad brush

    A style or approach that deals with something in very general, sweeping terms, without attention to fine details or subtle nuances.

  2. 02

    brush aside

    To disregard, dismiss or ignore something, as unimportant.

  3. 03

    brush by

    To walk past another person, touching them slightly, normally by accident, and ignoring them.

  4. 04

    brush down

    To straighten up one's clothes and to tidy up one's appearance.

  5. 05

    brush off

    To disregard (something), to dismiss or ignore (someone), as unimportant.

  6. 06

    brush up

    To review; to improve an existing but rusty or underdeveloped skill.

  7. 07

    live a lie

    To conceal something about oneself, without the knowledge of which others cannot know one's true character or perspective.

  8. 08

    live and die by

    Be completely reliant upon.

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