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Idiom idiom

my way or the highway


Your only options are to either do as I say or leave.

Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.


SIMPLE

He is difficult because it is always his way or the highway.

CONTEXTUAL

The manager refused to listen to our suggestions, telling the team it was his way or the highway.

COMPLEX

The director maintained a strict policy of his way or the highway, which eventually caused many of his most talented employees to resign.


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  1. 01

    a little of something goes a long way

    Only a small amount of something is usually required to produce a great effect.

  2. 02

    all the way to Egery and back

    The long way; a roundabout route; a long distance to travel.

  3. 03

    by the way

    Irrelevantly, off-topic.

  4. 04

    come a long way

    To make significant progress.

  5. 05

    cry all the way to the bank

    To be happy due to the receipt of money, but sad about the cause.

  6. 06

    cut both ways

    To have both benefits and drawbacks.

  7. 07

    die the way one lived

    To die because of or after doing something characteristic of oneself, especially something that one enjoyed doing.

  8. 08

    don't let the door hit you on the way out

    Used as a command to leave in haste, or to indicate that one is glad, or at least unmoved, to see the addressed person leaving.

Last updated August 10, 2026