abrasiveness
n. B2 Upper Intermediate UK //ɐbɹˈeɪsɪvnəs// abra·sive·ness
n. the quality of being very harsh, rude, or difficult to deal with. It describes someone or something that causes friction or pain.
n. the quality of being harsh, coarse, or difficult to tolerate; the property of causing friction or wearing away a surface. Often describes interpersonal behavior or physical materials.
His abrasiveness made it hard for him to have friends.
The manager's abrasiveness during the meeting caused several employees to leave the room in frustration.
The geological survey noted the extreme abrasiveness of the local sandstone, which had worn down the ancient stone tools found in the valley.
From abrasive + -ness.