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Phrasal verb

ask out

Definition

phrasal verb. to invite someone to go on a date with you because you like them.

phrasal verb. to invite someone to a social engagement, such as a meal or a movie, specifically to initiate a romantic relationship.

Examples

“He finally found the courage to ask her out.”

“If you really like him, you should just ask him out for a coffee this weekend.”

“Despite his usual confidence in professional settings, he felt uncharacteristically nervous when he decided to ask her out after the conference.”

Examples

simple

“He finally found the courage to ask her out.”

contextual

“If you really like him, you should just ask him out for a coffee this weekend.”

complex

“Despite his usual confidence in professional settings, he felt uncharacteristically nervous when he decided to ask her out after the conference.”

Usage

the object (the person being invited) usually goes between 'ask' and 'out'.

Teaching tip

this is a transitive separable phrasal verb; emphasize that when using a pronoun like 'him' or 'her', it must go in the middle.

Pitfall

I asked out her.

I asked her out.

while you can say 'ask out [name]', with pronouns like 'her', the object must come between the verb and the particle.

Phrasal verb

Particles

out

Separability

optional

Pattern

ask + object + out

Synonyms

inviterequest a datewoo

Antonyms

Grammar

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B1 · Intermediate
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