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Word

etiquette

Phoneticseti·quette

US/ˈɛtəkət/

UK/ˈɛtɪkˌɛt/

Definition

n. the set of rules for polite behavior in a group or situation. It helps you know how to act so you do not offend others.

n. the customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group.

Examples

“Good phone etiquette means not texting during a dinner party.”

“Business etiquette in this country requires you to exchange business cards with both hands and a slight bow.”

“While the core principles of social etiquette remain constant, the specific protocols for digital communication continue to evolve as new platforms emerge and social norms shift.”

Examples

simple

“Good phone etiquette means not texting during a dinner party.”

contextual

“Business etiquette in this country requires you to exchange business cards with both hands and a slight bow.”

complex

“While the core principles of social etiquette remain constant, the specific protocols for digital communication continue to evolve as new platforms emerge and social norms shift.”

Usage

Usually uncountable when referring to the general concept of polite behavior; can be countable when referring to specific sets of rules.

Real-World Examples

“Photograph: Victoria Haydn/Therme Manchester The theatre’s organisers said the challenges had been around etiquette, such as ensuring people sit on towels.”
The Guardian · 27 Aug 2026
“And students may not understand traditional email etiquette.”
The Conversation · 13 Aug 2026

Etymology

1740, from French étiquette (“property, a little piece of paper, or a mark or title, affixed to a bag or bundle, expressing its contents, a label, ticket”), from Middle French estiquette (“ticket, memorandum”), from the Old French verb estechier, estichier, estequier (“to attach, stick”), (compare Picard estiquier (“to stick, pierce”)), from Frankish stekan, stikkjan (“to stick, pierce, sting”), from Proto-Germanic stikaną, stikōną, staikijaną (“to be sharp, pierce, prick”), from Proto-Indo-European (s)teyg- (“to be sharp, to stab”). Akin to Old High German stehhan (“to stick, attach, nail”) (German stechen (“to stick”)), Old English stician (“to pierce, stab, be fastened”). The French Court of Louis XIV at Versailles used étiquettes (literally “little cards”) to remind courtiers to keep off of the grass and similar rules. More at stick (verb) and stitch. Doublet of ticket.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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