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get in with

phr. v..
C1 Advanced Oxford Informal

phr. v.. to become friendly with a person or group, usually because you think they are important or can help you.

phr. v.. to establish a friendly relationship with a specific person or social group, often with the pragmatic goal of gaining influence or social advantage.


SIMPLE

He is trying to get in with the popular crowd.

CONTEXTUAL

She managed to get in with the management team early in her career, which helped her get promoted quickly.

COMPLEX

Ambitious young associates often attempt to get in with the senior partners by volunteering for the most demanding and high-profile cases.

Particles
in with
Separability
inseparable
Pattern
get + in + with + object
Usage

usually followed by a group of people or an influential individual.

Teaching tip

point out the social calculation often implied here; it is not just 'making friends' but often involves a level of networking or social climbing.

Pitfall

He got in the group.He got in with the group.the preposition 'with' is essential to indicate the relationship; 'get in' alone usually refers to physical entry or acceptance into a school.

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