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grow together

phr. v..
B2 Upper Intermediate Oxford

phr. v.. to develop a closer relationship with someone over time as you both change or mature.

phr. v.. to develop a stronger emotional or social bond through shared experiences and maturation; often used to describe the evolution of long-term relationships.


SIMPLE

We grew together during our years at university.

CONTEXTUAL

While many couples drift apart over the years, they managed to grow together by supporting each other's goals.

COMPLEX

The two communities, once divided by historical grievances, began to grow together as economic interests aligned and cultural exchanges became more frequent.

Particles
together
Separability
inseparable
Pattern
subject(plural) + grow + together
Usage

usually used as an intransitive verb with a plural subject (we, they, the couple).

Teaching tip

contrast this with 'grow apart', which is its direct opposite and much more common in discussions about failing relationships.

Pitfall

They grew together their children.They grew together while raising their children.this phrasal verb is intransitive and cannot take a direct object; you cannot 'grow together' someone else.

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