grow together
phrasal verb.phrasal verb. to develop a closer relationship with someone over time as you both change or mature.
phrasal verb. to develop a stronger emotional or social bond through shared experiences and maturation; often used to describe the evolution of long-term relationships.
We grew together during our years at university.
While many couples drift apart over the years, they managed to grow together by supporting each other's goals.
The two communities, once divided by historical grievances, began to grow together as economic interests aligned and cultural exchanges became more frequent.
usually used as an intransitive verb with a plural subject (we, they, the couple).
contrast this with 'grow apart', which is its direct opposite and much more common in discussions about failing relationships.
They grew together their children.They grew together while raising their children.this phrasal verb is intransitive and cannot take a direct object; you cannot 'grow together' someone else.
Last updated April 24, 2026