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Word

hostess

Phoneticshost·ess, stress on the first syllable

US/ˈhoʊstəs/

UK/hˈəʊstɛs/

Definitions

01social host

B1 · Intermediate Countable noun

n. a woman who receives and entertains guests in her own home.

n. a female person who receives or entertains guests in a social capacity.

“Our hostess made sure everyone had a drink and felt welcome at the party.”

“The hostess circulated through the room with practiced ease, ensuring that even the most reserved guests were introduced to one another.”

Usage

While 'hostess' is common, many modern speakers use the gender-neutral 'host' for everyone.

Teaching tip

In modern English, 'host' is increasingly used for all genders, but 'hostess' remains standard in many social and professional contexts.

Synonyms

Antonyms

02restaurant worker

B1 · Intermediate Countable noun

n. a person at a restaurant who greets you and takes you to your table.

n. a staff member in a restaurant responsible for greeting customers and managing table assignments.

“The hostess asked if we had a reservation before leading us to a booth.”

“The restaurant hostess managed the long waiting list efficiently, providing accurate wait times to the arriving patrons.”

Usage

Often used specifically for the person stationed at the entrance of a dining establishment.

Synonyms

maître d'

03flight attendant

B2 · Upper Intermediate Countable noun Archaic

n. a woman who looks after passengers on an airplane.

n. a female flight attendant; historically common but now largely replaced by gender-neutral terminology.

“In the old days, the air hostess would serve meals on real china plates.”

“The term 'air hostess' has been largely phased out of professional aviation manuals in favor of the gender-neutral 'flight attendant'.”

Teaching tip

This sense is considered dated. Advise students to use 'flight attendant' in professional or modern contexts.

Synonyms

flight attendantstewardess

04paid companion

C1 · Advanced Countable noun Technical

n. a woman paid to talk to and entertain customers at a bar or club.

n. a woman employed to provide companionship, conversation, and entertainment to male patrons in a bar or nightclub.

“The club employed several hostesses to encourage customers to buy more expensive drinks.”

“In certain urban districts, the role of the bar hostess is a strictly regulated profession centered on hospitality and social interaction.”

Teaching tip

Be aware that in some cultures, this term can imply sex work, though in others it refers strictly to social companionship.

Synonyms

bargirl

Etymology

From Middle English hostesse, from Middle French hostesse, from Old French ostesce, made up of oste (“host”) + -esce (“feminine marker”).

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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Exam level
CambridgeCambridgeCambridge English QualificationsThe exam suite from Cambridge University Press & Assessment, from A1 Movers up to C2 Proficiency. The benchmark names double as CEFR labels.B1 PreliminaryIELTSIELTSInternational English Language Testing SystemThe 0–9 band test co-owned by the British Council, IDP, and Cambridge. Used for university entry, work, and migration.4.0–5.0TOEFL iBTTOEFL iBTTest of English as a Foreign Language, Internet-Based TestETS's academic English test, the standard route for US university admissions. Scored 0–120, with a 1–6 scale since 2026.1–6 scale: 3.0–3.544–71TOEICTOEICTest of English for International CommunicationETS's workplace English test, big in Japan and Korea. Listening & Reading scores 10–990 and tops out at C1.550–784
Frequency
Frequent
Level
B1 · Intermediate
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