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Word

messing

Phoneticsmess·ing

US/ˈmɛsɪŋ/

UK/mˈɛsɪŋ/

Definitions

01behaving sillily

B1

v. to spend time doing things that are not useful or to behave in a silly way.

v. to engage in idle or frivolous activity; often used with 'around' or 'about'.

“Stop messing around and finish your homework before dinner.”

“The supervisor warned the interns that if they continued messing about during the safety briefing, they would be dismissed from the site.”

Informal

Usage

Usually followed by the particles 'around' or 'about'.

Teaching tip

This is very common in spoken English to tell someone to be serious.

Synonyms

Antonyms

02interfering with something

B2

v. to touch or change something in a way that might damage it or cause problems.

v. to interfere with or meddle in something, typically without permission or necessary skill.

“I think someone has been messing with my computer settings because the screen looks different.”

“The technician advised the homeowner against messing with the internal wiring, as it could void the manufacturer's warranty.”

Informal

Usage

Usually takes the preposition 'with'.

Teaching tip

Often implies that the person doing the 'messing' doesn't really know what they are doing.

03treating someone unfairly

B2

v. to treat someone badly or be dishonest with them, often by changing your mind or making things difficult.

v. to treat someone in a deceptive, manipulative, or inconsiderate manner.

“He keeps changing the date of our meeting; I feel like he is just messing with me.”

“The agency was accused of messing people around by promising jobs that never actually existed.”

Informal

Usage

Often used as 'messing with [someone]' or 'messing [someone] around'.

Teaching tip

In British English, 'messing someone around' is the standard way to say someone is wasting your time.

Etymology

From the Old English personal name *Mæcca + -ing (“belonging to”).

Borrowed from German Messing (“brass”), a metonymic occupational surname for a brazier.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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