English Reference
verb

refrain

v.
US /ɹɪˈfɹeɪn/ UK /ɹɪfɹˈeɪn/ re·frain UK spelling refrained, refrains

  1. 01 B2 Upper Intermediate Formal

    to stop yourself from doing something that you want to do.

    to deliberately abstain from an impulse or action. Intransitive; almost always followed by the preposition 'from'.

    Simple

    Please refrain from smoking while you are inside the building.

    In context

    The diplomat had to refrain from commenting on the sensitive negotiations until a formal agreement was reached by both parties.

    Usage

    Usually followed by 'from' + noun or gerund.

    Teacher's tip

    This is a polite, formal way to tell people not to do something, often seen on signs or in official announcements.

    Pitfall
    Please refrain to talk during the movie. Please refrain from talking during the movie.

    The verb refrain must be followed by the preposition 'from' and a gerund (-ing form), not an infinitive.

    abstaindesistforbear

Invest some time in creating a budget tracker that works for you – and refrain from offering to buy a round with money that you may need to pay the bills.

The Guardian· 19 Aug 2026

One of his conditions is to refrain from communicating either directly or indirectly with the affected persons.

Toronto Sun· 17 Aug 2026

Etymology 1

From Middle English refreynen, from Anglo-Norman refrener, Old French refrener (from Latin refrenare), and influenced by Old French refraindre (from Latin refringere).

Etymology 2

From French refrain, from the Old French verb refraindre (“to break off, repeat”), from Latin re- (“back, again”) + frangō (“break”); compare Occitan refranhs (“a refrain”), refranher (“to repeat”). See refract and the verb refrain.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

This entry
Origin Latin refringere
Level C1 · Advanced
Frequency Frequent
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