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relate to sth/sb

phr. v..
B1 Intermediate Oxford

phr. v.. to understand how someone feels or why they do something because you have had a similar experience.

phr. v.. to identify with or feel a connection to a person, situation, or idea based on shared experience or empathy.


SIMPLE

I can really relate to your problem.

CONTEXTUAL

Many teenagers relate to the main character in the book because she feels like an outsider.

COMPLEX

The speaker's ability to relate to the struggles of the working class made his campaign surprisingly successful in rural areas.

Particles
to
Separability
inseparable
Pattern
relate + to + object
Usage

always followed by the preposition 'to' and an object.

Teaching tip

contrast with 'understand'; while 'understand' is intellectual, 'relate to' implies a personal, emotional connection or shared history.

Pitfall

I can relate with your situation.I can relate to your situation.in this sense of emotional connection, the correct preposition is 'to', not 'with'.

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