come into one's own
To reach a stage of development or maturity where one has achieved strength and confidence, economic security, or respect and social acceptance.
Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.
“She really comes into her own when she starts painting.”
“After years of working in junior roles, he finally came into his own as a manager this year.”
“The young musician finally came into her own, performing with a level of technical mastery and emotional depth that silenced the skeptical critics.”
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abound in one's own sense
To follow one’s own inclinations and opinions.
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ace up one's sleeve
A surprise advantage of which others are not aware.
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act one's age
To behave in a manner appropriate to one's age.
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act one's age, not one's shoe size
Synonym of act one's age (“to behave in a mature manner; to avoid being childish”).
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afraid of one's own shadow
Exceptionally timid.
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air one's dirty laundry in public
To reveal one's sordid secrets to the public.
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air one's dirty linen in public
Synonym of air one's dirty laundry in public.
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albatross around one's neck
A characteristic, possession, associate, or previous deed that hinders one's ability to succeed.
Last updated August 10, 2026