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come to terms with

idiom
Meaning

To resolve a conflict with.


Examples
SIMPLE

I am trying to come to terms with my new schedule.

CONTEXTUAL

It took him a long time to come to terms with the fact that he lost his job.

COMPLEX

After the sudden loss of her home, she struggled for months to come to terms with her new reality and find a path forward.

Anchors to
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    Starting an activity increases one's desire to continue it.

  2. 02

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  3. 03

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    To totally destroy (something); to annihilate or wipe out (something).

  4. 04

    burn that bridge when one comes to it

    To anticipate dealing with a problem or situation either by acting in a manner that alienates or cuts ties with others, or merely with the expectation of encountering trouble.

  5. 05

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  6. 06

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  7. 07

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    To make significant progress.

  8. 08

    come again

    A polite formula used when one has not heard or understood what has been said, or to indicate surprise.

Last updated April 17, 2026