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have someone by the balls

idiom
Meaning

To exercise total control over someone; to be in a position to threaten or extort someone.


Examples
SIMPLE

The boss has him by the balls because of his past mistakes.

CONTEXTUAL

Because the company holds all the evidence of his fraud, they have him by the balls regarding his future employment.

COMPLEX

By securing exclusive control over the supply chain, the rival firm effectively had the smaller manufacturer by the balls, forcing them to accept any terms offered.

Anchors to
Related idioms8entries
  1. 01

    as if someone owns the place

    Alternative form of like someone owns the place.

  2. 02

    balls of steel

    Courage, audacity.

  3. 03

    balls to the wall

    With maximum effort or commitment.

  4. 04

    beat someone round the ears

    To beat (a person) with blows about the head.

  5. 05

    bless someone with

    To give or bestow, as a gift from God.

  6. 06

    bring someone to their knees

    To defeat and make submit to orders.

  7. 07

    bust one's balls

    To work very hard; to put in a lot of effort.

  8. 08

    call someone every name in the book

    To call someone many abusive names.

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