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Idiom

I hardly know her

Meaning

A joking retort that draws attention to the possibility of sexual innuendo when a word ends with a schwar.

Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

Examples

“When he said he liked her dress, I joked, I hardly know her!”

“He says, "I hardly know her!" every time someone mentions the word dinner.”

“My friend mentioned he was really enjoying the new manager, and I couldn't resist saying, I hardly know her!”

“After the waiter asked if I wanted more butter for my bread, my brother immediately shouted, "Butter? I hardly know her!"”

“When the teacher started talking about the planet Jupiter, a student in the back row whispered, "Jupiter? I hardly know her!"”

“The comedian relied on the classic I hardly know her retort whenever a word ending in a similar sound provided an opening for a crude joke.”

Examples

simple

“When he said he liked her dress, I joked, I hardly know her!”

“He says, "I hardly know her!" every time someone mentions the word dinner.”

contextual

“My friend mentioned he was really enjoying the new manager, and I couldn't resist saying, I hardly know her!”

“After the waiter asked if I wanted more butter for my bread, my brother immediately shouted, "Butter? I hardly know her!"”

“When the teacher started talking about the planet Jupiter, a student in the back row whispered, "Jupiter? I hardly know her!"”

complex

“The comedian relied on the classic I hardly know her retort whenever a word ending in a similar sound provided an opening for a crude joke.”

Origin

The term arises from the phonological coincidence of the English suffix -er or -or, pronounced /əɹ/, with the phrase "her" used as a direct object. It functions as a pun on the preceding noun, treating the word as a transitive verb directed at a woman with whom the speaker claims a lack of prior acquaintance.

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