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kiss someone's ass

idiom
Meaning

To flatter someone (especially a superior) in an obsequious manner, and to support their every opinion to gain their favor.


Origin

disputed origin

Said because the ass is considered vulgar and being willing to kiss another's is considered a sign of submission and patronage.

Examples
SIMPLE

He tries to kiss his boss's ass to get a promotion.

CONTEXTUAL

I refuse to kiss my manager's ass just to get a better seat in the office.

COMPLEX

The ambitious junior associate spent his entire evening kissing the senior partner's ass in hopes of securing a partnership.

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Last updated July 12, 2026