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Idiom idiom

let someone down gently


To reject or refuse someone in a way that avoids causing hurt or disappointment.

Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.


SIMPLE

“I do not like him, but I want to let him down gently.”

CONTEXTUAL

“She did not want to go on a second date, so she tried to let him down gently.”

COMPLEX

“Although the candidate was clearly unqualified for the position, the manager chose to let him down gently by praising his enthusiasm while explaining why they had selected someone else.”


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Last updated August 10, 2026