English Reference
Idiom idiom

play hard to get


Of a courtship, to be coy; to feign lack of romantic interest in a certain person, so as to compel that person to be more overt in expressing interest.

Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.


SIMPLE

“She is playing hard to get with him.”

CONTEXTUAL

“He kept texting her, but she was playing hard to get to see if he was truly interested.”

COMPLEX

“Although she felt a strong connection, she decided to play hard to get, hoping that a little distance would encourage him to pursue her more earnestly.”


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Last updated August 10, 2026