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set one's cap at

idiom
Meaning

To choose a man as a potential husband (for a girl).


Origin

disputed origin

Probably a calque of French mettre le cap sur (“to set a course for”).

Examples
SIMPLE

She set her cap at the new neighbor.

CONTEXTUAL

Everyone noticed how she set her cap at the wealthy visitor during the summer dance.

COMPLEX

Determined to secure her future, the young woman set her cap at the eligible bachelor despite his cold reputation.

Anchors to
Related idioms8entries
  1. 01

    abound in one's own sense

    To follow one’s own inclinations and opinions.

  2. 02

    ace up one's sleeve

    A surprise advantage of which others are not aware.

  3. 03

    act one's age

    To behave in a manner appropriate to one's age.

  4. 04

    act one's age, not one's shoe size

    Synonym of act one's age (“to behave in a mature manner; to avoid being childish”).

  5. 05

    afraid of one's own shadow

    Exceptionally timid.

  6. 06

    air one's dirty laundry in public

    To reveal one's sordid secrets to the public.

  7. 07

    air one's dirty linen in public

    Synonym of air one's dirty laundry in public.

  8. 08

    albatross around one's neck

    A characteristic, possession, associate, or previous deed that hinders one's ability to succeed.

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