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shrinking violet

idiom
Meaning

A very shy or timid person, who avoids contact with others if possible.


Origin

disputed origin

Possibly from the inconspicuous nature of the violet (genus Viola) flower and plant. The term appears to have been first used in the literal sense in the early 19th century.

Examples
SIMPLE

She is a shrinking violet who rarely speaks in class.

CONTEXTUAL

Although he is a talented musician, he is such a shrinking violet that he refuses to perform on stage.

COMPLEX

Despite her brilliant insights during private discussions, she remained a shrinking violet in large meetings, preferring to let others take the lead.

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