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break up with sb

phr. v..
B1 Intermediate Oxford

phr. v.. to end a romantic relationship with someone.

phr. v.. to terminate a romantic partnership or relationship; intransitive usage is common, but when transitive, it requires the preposition 'with'.


SIMPLE

I think I need to break up with him.

CONTEXTUAL

After dating for three years, they decided to break up with each other because they wanted different things.

COMPLEX

She finally found the courage to break up with her partner after realizing their long-term goals were no longer compatible.

Particles
up with
Separability
inseparable
Pattern
break + up + with + object
Usage

always followed by 'with' when the partner is mentioned as the object.

Teaching tip

contrast with 'split up', which is a near-synonym, and 'dump', which is much more informal and implies a one-sided, unkind ending.

Pitfall

She broke up her boyfriend.She broke up with her boyfriend.without 'with', the phrase 'break up' can mean to physically destroy something or to stop a fight.

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