English Reference

Word

flattering

Phoneticsflat·ter·ing, stress on the first syllable

US/ˈfɫætɝɪŋ/

UK/flˈætəɹɪŋ/

Definitions

01making you look good

B2 · Upper Intermediate

adj. making someone look more attractive than they usually do.

adj. enhancing one's physical appearance or making a person look more attractive than is typical.

“That dark blue shirt is very flattering on you because it matches your eyes.”

“The photographer used soft, diffused lighting to create a flattering portrait that minimised the subject's wrinkles and imperfections.”

Antonyms

02pleasing to your ego

B2 · Upper Intermediate

adj. making you feel important, proud, or pleased with yourself.

adj. gratifying to one's self-esteem or ego; providing a sense of being admired or valued.

“It was very flattering to be invited to speak at the international conference.”

“While the job offer was incredibly flattering, she ultimately decided that the commute would be too taxing for her family life.”

03too favourable

C1 · Advanced Formal

adj. showing something in a way that is better than the truth.

adj. representing something or someone more favourably than is actually deserved or accurate.

“The biography gave a very flattering account of the king's difficult reign.”

“Critics argued that the documentary provided a flattering and one-sided view of the company's environmental record, ignoring several major scandals.”

Antonyms

Real-World Examples

“Even worse than being called “girl” or “lady” ( Letters, 5 October ) is being called “young lady” by men 50 years my junior, who think they are flattering me.”
The Guardian 7 Oct 2026
“He said Jones would welcome him with a hug and a kiss on the cheek and use flattering terms like “champion” and “beautiful man”.”
The Guardian 14 Sept 2026
“But bear in mind that warm colours in general: yellows, oranges and pinks, may be the most flattering option for the humans in the room.”
House & Garden 15 Sept 2025
“If you want the soft, flattering flicker of candlelight, get cheap church pillars from Ikea.”
The Guardian 3 Sept 2022

Etymology

From Middle English flatering, flatrung (gerund), equivalent to flatter + -ing.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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Frequency
Frequent
Level
B2 · Upper Intermediate
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