English Reference

Word

polite

Phoneticspo·lite, stress on the second syllable

US/pəˈɫaɪt/

UK/pəlˈaɪt/

Definitions

01well-mannered

A2 · Elementary

adj. having good manners and showing respect for others.

adj. demonstrating good manners and social etiquette; showing regard for others through conventional social grace.

“The waiter was very polite even though the restaurant was extremely busy.”

“It is considered polite to send a handwritten thank-you note after staying at someone's home for the weekend.”

Pitfall

He was very polite with me.

He was very polite to me.

When describing who someone is being polite toward, use the preposition 'to'.

Synonyms

courteouscivilmannerly

Antonyms

rudeimpolitediscourteous

02refined or upper-class

C1 · Advanced Formal

adj. relating to people who are well-educated and have high social standing.

adj. relating to or characteristic of refined, cultivated, or upper-class society.

“In polite society, it was once considered rude to talk about money.”

“The author offers a biting critique of the hypocrisies often found within the circles of polite society during the Victorian era.”

Antonyms

uncouthvulgar

Real-World Examples

“I always say please and thank you to my Alexa. Why is this? I am sure it doesn’t care. Is it worth being polite to artificial assistants?”
The Guardian 5 Apr 2026
“If in doubt, err towards the polite and formal.”
Reuters 30 Sept 2013

Etymology

From Latin polītus (“polished”), past participle of poliō (“to polish, smooth”); see polish.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

Word family

ADJECTIVE

polite(A2)

Idioms

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Exam level
CambridgeCambridgeCambridge English QualificationsThe exam suite from Cambridge University Press & Assessment, from A1 Movers up to C2 Proficiency. The benchmark names double as CEFR labels.A2 KeyIELTSIELTSInternational English Language Testing SystemThe 0–9 band test co-owned by the British Council, IDP, and Cambridge. Used for university entry, work, and migration.3.0–4.0TOEFL iBTTOEFL iBTTest of English as a Foreign Language, Internet-Based TestETS's academic English test, the standard route for US university admissions. Scored 0–120, with a 1–6 scale since 2026.1–6 scale: 2.0–2.524–43TOEICTOEICTest of English for International CommunicationETS's workplace English test, big in Japan and Korea. Listening & Reading scores 10–990 and tops out at C1.225–549
Frequency
Frequent
Level
A2 · ElementaryOxford
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