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carry a torch

idiom
Meaning

To love or to be romantically infatuated with, especially when such feelings are not reciprocated.


Origin

disputed origin

From the metaphor of a burning flame, to keep a fire burning. The association of a torch with love may date to the Greek and Roman tradition of a wedding torch, lit in the bride’s hearth on her wedding night, then used to light the hearth in her new home. Such a torch is associated with the Greek god of marriage Hymenaios.

Examples
SIMPLE

He still carries a torch for his old high school sweetheart.

CONTEXTUAL

Even though they broke up years ago, she secretly carries a torch for him and checks his social media daily.

COMPLEX

Despite his outward indifference and the passage of many years, he continued to carry a torch for her, nursing a quiet, unrequited devotion that defined his solitary life.

Anchors to
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  3. 03

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  4. 04

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  5. 05

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  6. 06

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  7. 07

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  8. 08

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