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it takes two to tango

idiom
B1
Meaning

Some things need the active cooperation of two parties; blame is to be laid on both parties in a conflict.


Origin

first recorded 20th c. disputed origin

From the 1952 song 'Takes Two to Tango' by Al Hoffman and Dick Manning, sung by Pearl Bailey; President Reagan's use of it in 1982 cemented the idiom.

Examples
SIMPLE

You cannot blame just me, because it takes two to tango.

CONTEXTUAL

The manager refused to pick a side in the argument, reminding them that it takes two to tango.

COMPLEX

While the two nations accused each other of escalating the conflict, international observers noted that it takes two to tango and urged both sides to negotiate.

Anchors to
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    Two people united in sexual intercourse in the missionary position.

  2. 02

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    To be pregnant

  3. 03

    fall between two stools

    To fit into neither of two categories and, hence, be neglected or fail.

  4. 04

    feed two birds with one scone

    Synonym of kill two birds with one stone.

  5. 05

    for two pins

    Readily, with only the slightest encouragement.

  6. 06

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    The most harmful or unpleasant of two undesirable alternatives.

  7. 07

    hit two targets with one arrow

    Synonym of kill two birds with one stone.

  8. 08

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    Sexual intercourse.

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