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take the wind out of someone's sails

idiom
Meaning

To discourage someone greatly; to cause someone to lose hope or the will to continue; to thwart or minimize someone's ambitions.


Origin

disputed origin

Referring to the idea of a ship that intercepts the wind of another, causing it to slow or stop.

Examples
SIMPLE

His harsh criticism really took the wind out of my sails.

CONTEXTUAL

She was excited about her promotion until her boss took the wind out of her sails by canceling the project.

COMPLEX

The sudden announcement of the budget cuts took the wind out of the team's sails, leaving them feeling defeated just as they neared the finish line.

Anchors to
Related idioms8entries
  1. 01

    another nail in someone's coffin

    An event that increases the likelihood of or causes further failure.

  2. 02

    answer someone's prayers

    To be or do exactly what someone has been wishing or asking for.

  3. 03

    answer to someone's prayers

    Exactly what someone has been wishing or asking for.

  4. 04

    apple of someone's eye

    The object of somebody's affections; a person (or sometimes a thing) that someone strongly prefers; a favorite, a loved one.

  5. 05

    as the wind blows

    According to any given circumstances.

  6. 06

    bane of someone's existence

    Someone or something that poses a significant problem to someone.

  7. 07

    bash someone's face in

    To beat someone violently.

  8. 08

    bash someone's head

    To beat up someone violently.

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