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the handbags come out

idiom
Meaning

A row intensifies; a dispute becomes heated.


Origin

first recorded 21st c.

Coined c. March 2nd, 2004 by Jeremy St. Louis on the radio show Fox Sports World Report. Derives from women hitting each other with handbags during a catfight; compare earlier handbags, handbags at dawn.

Examples
SIMPLE

The meeting got loud when the handbags came out.

CONTEXTUAL

The discussion about the budget was calm until the handbags came out and everyone started shouting.

COMPLEX

As the negotiation stalled and personal insults were exchanged, it became clear that the handbags had come out, signaling a total breakdown in diplomacy.

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