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boss around

phr. v..
B1 Intermediate Oxford

phr. v.. to tell someone what to do in an annoying way, as if you are their manager.

phr. v.. to exercise control over another person in a domineering or overbearing manner; typically used to describe informal social dynamics rather than official hierarchies.


SIMPLE

Stop trying to boss me around all the time.

CONTEXTUAL

The older children often try to boss around the younger ones on the playground.

COMPLEX

Even though she had no formal authority, she frequently attempted to boss around her colleagues, leading to significant tension within the department.

Particles
around
Separability
optional
Pattern
boss (+ object) + around (+ object)
Usage

usually carries a negative connotation of being rude or controlling.

Teaching tip

point out that this is often used with 'stop' or 'don't' in imperatives; the object can go between 'boss' and 'around' or after 'around' unless it is a pronoun.

Pitfall

He bosses around me.He bosses me around.when the object is a pronoun like 'me' or 'him', it must go between the verb and the particle.

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