I think I touched a nerve when I asked about his job.
touch a nerve
idiomTo make a remark or perform a deed which produces a strong response, especially an emotional response such as anxiety or annoyance, because it calls to mind something which has been a source of concern or embarrassment.
Origin
disputed originAn allusion to the sharp sensation felt when a dentist or surgeon physically disturbs an exposed nerve.
She did not mean to be rude, but her comment about the budget clearly touched a nerve with the manager.
By questioning the legitimacy of the inheritance, the lawyer inadvertently touched a nerve, causing the usually composed heir to react with sudden, defensive hostility.
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common touch
The personal quality of showing understanding of and sympathy for the concerns of ordinary people; rapport with and acceptance by ordinary people, usually in a celebrity or leader.
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golden touch
Synonym of Midas touch (“the ability to achieve financial reward (or, more generally, success) easily and consistently”).
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hold one's nerve
To stay calm facing nervousness.
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human touch
The ability of a person to deal with others in a personable and empathetic way.
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kick into touch
To evade an issue; to stop from happening.
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lose one's touch
To lose one's special mastery of or knack for a particular skill or activity.
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lose touch
To lose contact (with).
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magic touch
An ability or skill to produce highly favorable results in an impressive way.