Word
femme
US/ˈfɛm/
UK/fˈɛm/
Definitions
01feminine queer identity
n. a lesbian or queer person who has a feminine appearance or identity.
n. a lesbian, bisexual woman, or non-binary person whose gender expression or identity is feminine. Often used as a self-identifier within the LGBTQ+ community.
“She identified as a femme and loved wearing vintage dresses to the club.”
“The documentary explores the historical evolution of the femme identity within urban lesbian communities during the mid-twentieth century.”
Informal
Teaching tip
While 'femme' means 'woman' in French, in English it is specifically a queer identity marker; using it for straight women may cause confusion.
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02having a feminine queer style
adj. having a style or look that is feminine, especially within the queer community.
adj. denoting a feminine style, aesthetic, or identity within a queer context.
“He preferred a more femme look, often wearing makeup and floral patterns.”
“The fashion show highlighted femme aesthetics, challenging traditional binary views of how queer people should dress.”
Informal
Usage
Often used to modify nouns like 'identity', 'aesthetic', or 'presentation'.
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03effeminate (insult)
adj. a rude way to describe a man who acts in a way that people think is feminine.
adj. a derogatory term for a man perceived as effeminate or lacking traditional masculine qualities.
“The boys at school used 'femme' as a mean way to tease him.”
“The critic noted that the character was written as a 'femme' stereotype, intended to be the target of ridicule by the protagonist.”
Slang · Informal
Teaching tip
This sense is often considered offensive or derogatory when used by people outside the community to mock men.
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Etymology
Borrowed from French femme (“woman”). Doublet of feme, femina, and hembra.
Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.