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Word

intimacy

Phoneticsin·ti·ma·cy, stress on the first syllable

US/ˈɪntəməsi/

UK/ˈɪntɪməsi/

Definitions

01emotional closeness

B2 · Upper Intermediate Uncountable noun

n. a feeling of being very close to someone and being able to share your private thoughts with them.

n. a state of close emotional connection and mutual understanding between individuals.

“The long walk by the lake allowed for a rare moment of intimacy between the two friends.”

“True emotional intimacy requires a level of vulnerability that many people find difficult to achieve even in long-term partnerships.”

Antonyms

distancedetachmentestrangement

02physical or romantic closeness

B2 · Upper Intermediate Uncountable noun

n. a close romantic or sexual relationship with another person.

n. the state of being in a private, often sexual or romantic, relationship.

“They struggled to maintain their intimacy while working in different cities.”

“The film explores the complexities of physical intimacy and how it evolves over decades of marriage.”

Synonyms

03private details

C1 · Advanced Plural noun Literary · Formal

n. private or personal details about someone's life.

n. private or personal information, often shared in confidence. Usually used in the plural form.

“After a few glasses of wine, they began to share the small intimacies of their childhoods.”

“The biographer was criticised for revealing the private intimacies of the poet's life without the family's consent.”

Usage

Often used in the plural form 'intimacies'.

Real-World Examples

“The level of intimacy is such that “I call her mum, because she cooks for me”.”
The Guardian 19 Aug 2026
“Our research suggested that a desire for intimacy with friends wasn’t specific to wanting only close relationships with a few friends.”
The Conversation 7 Aug 2026

Etymology

From intimate + -cy.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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Frequency
Frequent
Level
B2 · Upper Intermediate
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