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give someone the cold shoulder

idiom
B1
Meaning

To snub, resist or reject somebody; to regard somebody distantly.


Origin

first recorded 19th c. folk etymology

Coined or popularised by Sir Walter Scott in The Antiquary (1816) as 'cauld shouther'; the story about serving guests cold mutton shoulder is folk etymology.

Examples
SIMPLE

Don't give me the cold shoulder just because I made a mistake.

CONTEXTUAL

After their argument at the party, she gave him the cold shoulder for the rest of the night.

COMPLEX

Despite his repeated attempts to apologize for the misunderstanding, his former business partner continued to give him the cold shoulder throughout the meeting.

Anchors to
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  1. 01

    a cold day in July

    The time of occurrence of an event that will never happen.

  2. 02

    as if someone owns the place

    Alternative form of like someone owns the place.

  3. 03

    beat someone round the ears

    To beat (a person) with blows about the head.

  4. 04

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    To give or bestow, as a gift from God.

  5. 05

    blow hot and cold

    To behave inconsistently; to vacillate or to waver, as between extremes of opinion or emotion.

  6. 06

    bring someone to their knees

    To defeat and make submit to orders.

  7. 07

    call someone every name in the book

    To call someone many abusive names.

  8. 08

    call someone everything but a child of God

    To call someone many abusive names.

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