turn the other cheek
To accept punishment or injury without retaliating.
Meaning adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.
“He chose to turn the other cheek instead of fighting back.”
“Even though his coworker was rude to him, he decided to turn the other cheek and stay professional.”
“Rather than engaging in a bitter cycle of retaliation, she chose to turn the other cheek, demonstrating a level of grace that surprised her critics.”
The phrase comes from the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew 5:39, where Jesus counters the older principle of measured retaliation, an eye for an eye. Instead he says: do not resist an evildoer; if someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. It is a deliberate reversal of the instinct to hit back, offering the aggressor a second target rather than a matching blow.
The teaching is about non-retaliation: absorbing an insult or injury rather than escalating it. Whether read as pacifism or as a pointed refusal to play by the logic of revenge, the gesture of presenting the other cheek is the memorable core.
In English, to turn the other cheek means to respond to hostility or provocation without retaliating, to take the hit and decline to return it. It is invoked both as an ideal of restraint and, sometimes, as a challenge to it.
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Last updated August 10, 2026