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Word

assertiveness

Phoneticsas·sertive·ness

US/əˈsɝtɪvnəs/

UK/ɐsˈɜːtɪvnəs/

Uncountable noun

Definition

n. clear and confident expression of what you want or think, without being rude.

n. confident, direct expression of opinions, needs, or boundaries while respecting the rights of others. Contrasts with both passivity, which avoids expression, and aggression, which disregards others.

Examples

“Her assertiveness helps her ask for what she needs.”

“His assertiveness shows when he calmly tells his manager he needs more time to finish the report.”

“Her quiet assertiveness allowed her to defend the team's budget without alienating senior leaders who expected deference.”

Examples

simple

“Her assertiveness helps her ask for what she needs.”

contextual

“His assertiveness shows when he calmly tells his manager he needs more time to finish the report.”

complex

“Her quiet assertiveness allowed her to defend the team's budget without alienating senior leaders who expected deference.”

Collocations

Common phrases and expressions where native English speakers use the word “assertiveness” in context.

Verb

01. act with assertiveness

“He learned to act with assertiveness in difficult negotiations.”

verb + prep + noun

02. assertiveness grows

“Her assertiveness grows every time she speaks up in meetings.”

noun + verb

03. assertiveness helps

“Assertiveness helps you set boundaries without feeling guilty.”

noun + verb

04. develop assertiveness

“The workshop helps students develop assertiveness for group discussions.”

verb + noun

05. display assertiveness

“She displayed assertiveness by clearly stating her needs in the meeting.”

verb + noun

06. encourage assertiveness

“Good teachers encourage assertiveness while teaching respect for others.”

verb + noun

Adjective

07. calm assertiveness

“Managers need calm assertiveness to give clear feedback without upsetting staff.”

adj + noun

08. healthy assertiveness

“Healthy assertiveness helps teenagers say no to peer pressure.”

adj + noun

Noun

09. degree of assertiveness

“She was surprised by the degree of assertiveness needed in sales.”

noun + prep + noun

10. assertiveness without aggression

“The training teaches assertiveness without aggression in conflict.”

11. combine politeness with assertiveness

“Good leaders combine politeness with assertiveness when giving orders.”

12. develop greater assertiveness at work

“Mentoring helped her develop greater assertiveness at work.”

Real-World Examples

“Most leaders could gain from enhancing their assertiveness—not the bothersome, aggressive type, but the constructive abilities that can facilitate change and, crucially, uphold integrity, according to Harvard Business Review.”
Reuters 3 Jul 2012

Etymology

From assertive + -ness.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

Word family

NOUN

assertiveness(B2)

ADJECTIVE

Related words

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Exam level
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Frequency
Occasional
Level
B2 · Upper Intermediate
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