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Word

closeted

Phoneticsclos·et·ed, stress on the first syllable

US/ˈkɫɑzətɪd/

UK/klˈɒzɪtɪd/

Definition

adj. keeping an important part of yourself secret from other people, especially who you love or how you see your gender. You use it when someone has not told others yet because it does not feel safe.

adj. keeping one's sexual orientation, gender identity, or other important personal trait hidden from others. Typically used predicatively after 'be' or 'remain', and contrasted with being 'out'.

Examples

“He stays closeted at work for now.”

“She remains closeted with her family but is open with close friends.”

“After years of living a closeted life in a small town, the writer finally shared his story in a memoir about fear and acceptance.”

Examples

simple

“He stays closeted at work for now.”

contextual

“She remains closeted with her family but is open with close friends.”

complex

“After years of living a closeted life in a small town, the writer finally shared his story in a memoir about fear and acceptance.”

Collocations

Common phrases and expressions where native English speakers use the word “closeted” in context.

Verb

01. closeted come out

“After a decade closeted, she came out to her family last spring.”

adj + verb + particle

02. live closeted

“She lived closeted for ten years before telling her family.”

verb + adj

03. remain closeted

“He felt he had to remain closeted to keep his teaching job.”

verb + adj

04. stay closeted

“Many athletes stay closeted until after retirement.”

verb + adj

Adjective

05. deeply closeted

“He remained deeply closeted throughout his football career.”

adv + adj

06. secretly closeted

“He lived as a secretly closeted student at university.”

adv + adj

Noun

07. closeted athlete

“The closeted athlete feared losing sponsors if he was honest.”

adj + noun

08. closeted life

“She was exhausted by her closeted life at work and at home.”

adj + noun

09. closeted teenager

“As a closeted teenager, he avoided talking about his weekend.”

adj + noun

10. come out after years closeted

“He came out after years closeted in a small conservative town.”

11. live a closeted life

“He was tired of living a closeted life and told his sister.”

12. remain deeply closeted for years

“He remained deeply closeted for years before trusting his colleagues.”

Usage

Typically used predicatively after 'be', 'stay' or 'remain'; contrasted with 'out'.

Etymology

From closet (“state of concealment”) + -ed.

See closet (verb)

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

Antonyms

out

Related words

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Frequency
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Level
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