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Word

despairing

Phoneticsde·spair·ing, stress on the second syllable

US/dɪˈspɛɹɪŋ/

UK/dɪspˈeəɹɪŋ/

Definition

adj. feeling that nothing good can happen and there is no hope left. You feel this when a situation seems completely hopeless.

adj. feeling or showing a complete loss of hope; believing that a situation cannot improve. Often describes cries, attempts, or expressions made in hopelessness.

Examples

“She feels despairing after losing her job.”

“After months without work, he sends despairing messages to friends asking for help.”

“The rescue teams worked through the night despite the despairing silence that followed each unanswered call from beneath the rubble.”

Examples

simple

“She feels despairing after losing her job.”

contextual

“After months without work, he sends despairing messages to friends asking for help.”

complex

“The rescue teams worked through the night despite the despairing silence that followed each unanswered call from beneath the rubble.”

Collocations

Common phrases and expressions where native English speakers use the word “despairing” in context.

Verb

01. become despairing

“He became despairing after months without work or news.”

verb + adj

02. despairing parent

“A despairing parent waited outside the hospital for news.”

adj + noun

03. despairing patient

“The despairing patient asked the doctor for honest answers.”

adj + noun

04. feel despairing

“Many students feel despairing before difficult exams without support.”

verb + adj

05. grow despairing

“She grew despairing as the negotiations collapsed again.”

verb + adj

Adjective

06. deeply despairing

“She was deeply despairing when the rescue team stopped the search.”

adv + adj

07. increasingly despairing

“As the drought continued, villagers became increasingly despairing.”

adv + adj

Noun

08. despairing attempt

“They made a despairing attempt to save the burning house.”

adj + noun

09. despairing cry

“He let out a despairing cry when he heard the result.”

adj + noun

10. despairing look

“She gave him a despairing look and walked away.”

adj + noun

11. despairing plea

“The letter was a despairing plea for financial help.”

adj + noun

12. in increasingly despairing voice

“She spoke in an increasingly despairing voice about her job.”

Usage

Often used predicatively after 'feel' or 'seem' and attributively before nouns like 'cry', 'look', or 'attempt'.

Real-World Examples

“The Chelsea winger rolled a confident finish past Pickford’s despairing dive into the bottom corner.”
The Guardian 17 Oct 2026
“K-pop singer Koo Hara was found dead in her home on Sunday and the police found a handwritten note despairing about her life.”
Reuters 28 Nov 2019
“My year of unraveling" is how a despairing Christy Morrill described nightmarish months when his immune system hijacked his brain.”
Associated Press 19 Nov 2025

Etymology

From Middle English despeyringe, equivalent to despair + -ing.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

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Level
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