English Reference
adjective

ashamed

adj.
US /əˈʃeɪmd/ UK /ɐʃˈeɪmd/ ashamed

  1. 01 B1 Intermediate

    feeling bad or embarrassed because you have done something wrong or silly.

    feeling shame or distress arising from a sense of guilt, impropriety, or shortcoming.

    Simple

    He felt ashamed of his behavior at the party and called to apologize the next day.

    In context

    She was deeply ashamed of her failure to speak up when she witnessed the injustice, feeling that her silence made her complicit.

    Usage

    Usually follows a linking verb like 'be' or 'feel' and takes the preposition 'of'.

    Pitfall
    I am ashamed about my mistake. I am ashamed of my mistake.

    Use the preposition 'of' after ashamed to indicate the cause of the shame.

    proudunabashed
  2. 02 B2 Upper Intermediate

    unwilling to do something because you are embarrassed or afraid of what people will think.

    reluctant to act or speak due to a fear of humiliation or loss of face.

    Simple

    I was ashamed to admit that I had never read such a famous book.

    In context

    Many people are ashamed to seek professional help for mental health issues due to the persistent social stigma surrounding the topic.

    Usage

    Often followed by a 'to' infinitive.

We had discussed weight, identity and GLP-1s, but I was so ashamed of going on it that I didn’t want to tell anyone.

The Guardian· 9 Sept 2026

From Middle English ashamed, aschamed, from Old English āsċamod, past participle of Old English āsċamian (“to be ashamed”), equivalent to a- + shame + -ed.

Etymology adapted from Wiktionary, available under CC BY-SA 4.0.

This entry
Origin Old English āsċamian
Level B2 · Upper Intermediate
Frequency Common
Updated