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ashamed

adj.
US //əˈʃeɪmd// UK //ɐʃˈeɪmd// ashamed
  1. 1 feeling guilt or embarrassment (adj.)
    B1 Intermediate

    feeling bad or embarrassed because you have done something wrong or silly.

    feeling shame or distress arising from a sense of guilt, impropriety, or shortcoming.

    Example

    He felt ashamed of his behavior at the party and called to apologize the next day.

    Example

    She was deeply ashamed of her failure to speak up when she witnessed the injustice, feeling that her silence made her complicit.

    Usage

    Usually follows a linking verb like 'be' or 'feel' and takes the preposition 'of'.

    Pitfall
    I am ashamed about my mistake.
    I am ashamed of my mistake.

    Use the preposition 'of' after ashamed to indicate the cause of the shame.

  2. 2 reluctant due to shame (adj.)
    B2 Upper Intermediate

    unwilling to do something because you are embarrassed or afraid of what people will think.

    reluctant to act or speak due to a fear of humiliation or loss of face.

    Example

    I was ashamed to admit that I had never read such a famous book.

    Example

    Many people are ashamed to seek professional help for mental health issues due to the persistent social stigma surrounding the topic.

    Usage

    Often followed by a 'to' infinitive.

Origin

From Middle English ashamed, aschamed, from Old English āsċamod, past participle of Old English āsċamian (“to be ashamed”), equivalent to a- + shame + -ed.

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